So, what to choose? What is the right decision? How can I analyse it further to be sure it’s the right one? How will I know it will make me …
From Really Bad Procrastination to Momentum
Avoiding. Avoiding to think. Sort out these emails. Sort out those papers. Clean out that “thing”. Turn the TV on… Sounds familiar? Any distraction to avoid thinking about what to …
The Year Is Ending And That Change Still Hasn’t Happened….
So, you keep on contemplating “that” change. How can it almost be the end of the year already?! Where has time gone by? What have I done with myself? Why …
Procrastinate? Me??
We could have a whole theoretical conversation about why we procrastinate, how our brain works, the role of our subconscious… Today, let’s just be practical and do something right now …
How To Approach “That” Dreaded Discussion…
So now you have to have “that” dreaded discussion with your boss to make changes to your job (if you have decided to make a change internally), or that “scary” …
Do you ever find yourself thinking: “I wish I had behaved differently in this situation?” …
Do you ever find yourself thinking: “I wish I had behaved differently in this situation?” and get quite annoyed at yourself? Here is a simple way to start dealing with it. For …
The Big Why
There is a common saying that the three most stressful changes in our life are getting married, moving house (or country) and changing jobs! There are many ways to deal …
Reality is not always what we think…
Understanding our brain and how it perceives the world is one of the many keys to dealing successfully with change.
What Have Wheels And Spiders Got To Do With Your Career??
Before you start looking at what change you should make to your job or career, it is very useful to first step back and do a little “stocktake” of where …
A Simple but Very Helpful Tip in Case of Self Doubt
I was talking today to one of my clients who is going through significant change and was going through some self doubt, wondering if she was really up to, if …
What Is Success?
If we don’t know what success is for us, how will we know when we have achieved it? How do you define success? Not what others think success is, not …
A Simple Exercise On Change And Perspective…
Change is inevitable. Whether we like it or not, change happens, everything changes, nothing is permanent. It is how we deal with it that makes a difference. We often spend …
Zen Parable
Is Change Good Or Bad? To answer this question, something a little different: an old Zen parable full of wisdom I love sharing and which illustrates this point very well… “A …
How do you know that something is real?
How do you know that something is real? Would you say that if you see something, it is real? You might want to rethink this after watching this short video… …
A fascinating insight into how our brains function
A fascinating insight into how our brains function Researcher Jill Bolte Taylor has a massive stroke, and watches on as her brain functions — motion, speech, self-awareness — shut down one …